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The Moment I Let Go: The Dance That Changed Our Marriage (and Could Change Yours Too)

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I’ll never forget the moment I raised my hand during our ballroom dance lesson and asked the question out loud:

“Do I still have to follow him if he’s doing it wrong?”

I said it half-joking… but if I’m honest, I meant it.

Because the truth is, I’ve spent most of my life leading.
In business. In motherhood. In ministry. In marriage.
Not because I didn’t want help, but because I didn’t trust it.

My gypsy heart had learned that when you let someone lead, you risk being let down.
And I had been.
By my dad.
By people who left.
By promises that fell through.

So when I looked at Curt—my steady, kind, rhythm-challenged husband—on that dance floor…
I wasn’t just wondering if I could follow his steps.

I was wondering if I could follow his lead.

And the instructor didn’t even blink.
She smiled and said:

“Yes. Even if he does it wrong, no one will ever know. That’s the beauty of the dance.”

That moment wrecked me.
Because it wasn’t about dancing.
It was about surrender.
It was about trusting the rhythm God had designed all along.


That’s why Curt and I are inviting just 10 couples to something sacred:

Lead & Follow

A Marriage Date Night + Dance + Dinner Experience
📍 Troy, Ohio

This night is for couples who don’t want another sermon or surface-level advice.
It’s for the ones who lead, build, serve—and still want more for their marriage.
More intimacy. More rhythm. More trust.


🕺 What to Expect:

  • Ballroom dance instruction (yes, you’ll laugh and maybe cry too)

  • A walk through downtown Troy to our private dinner location

  • A beautiful meal at The Caroline  (11 N. Market St. Troy, OH 45373)

  • Wisdom & impartation from a couple who has led together in life and love for over 20 years

This night is romantic.
But it’s also real.
And it’s built for couples who are ready to let go of the weight they were never meant to carry—and step back into flow, together.


💡 Just 10 Couples. No replays. No waiting list.

This is a live, in-person experience in Troy, Ohio, and when the spots are gone—they’re gone.

If your heart’s racing while you read this, that’s not coincidence.
That’s your invitation.

💌 Reserve your seats now → ONLY A FEW SPOTS REMAINING
💃 Dress up. Show up. And come ready to move differently—in more ways than one.

With love & rhythm,
Coach Rach
Warrior Woman Coaching + Champion Builders

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