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Side-by-side comparison of 50-year-olds in 1985 and 2025, illustrating the shift in aging mindset, health, and vitality

Your Kids Don’t Want to Take Care of You Later—They Want to Watch You Live Now

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Let’s be real…

Your kids don’t want to take care of you when you’re old.
They want to watch you take care of yourself now.

They don’t want to see you wear yourself out.
Lose your identity.
Fade into the background of your own life.

They want to see you fully alive, in purpose, in joy, and in strength.

They may not know how to say it… but they’re watching.
Watching how you move through hard seasons.
Watching how you care for your mind, your body, your soul.
Watching whether or not you believe what you say you believe.

You are their blueprint for what’s possible.
You are their first exposure to what healing looks like.
You are their example of faith that actually works in real life.

And if you're still carrying the idea that self-care is selfish, or that prioritizing your health, growth, or calling makes you a bad parent—let me lovingly shake that lie off of you.

Because you choosing to rise?
To heal?
To break the cycles that tried to take you out?
That’s the very thing that creates a legacy they don’t have to recover from.


Your Kids Want You to Do the Work Now

They want you to go to therapy.
To get in the Word.
To move your body.
To forgive.
To stop repeating what was modeled for you.
To show them what real transformation looks like—not perfection, but progress.

And they want to see it now.
Not when it’s too late.
Not when your body is breaking down.
Not when regret sets in.


This is Why I Coach the Way I Do

Because I’m not just building successful women—I’m building whole women.

Women who:

  • Lead with fire

  • Show up for their families from a healed place

  • Break generational patterns

  • And model what real alignment looks like—mind, body, and spirit


This Is Your Moment to Rise

You don't have to wait until your kids are grown.
You don't need permission.
And you certainly don’t need to explain your healing journey to anyone who doesn’t understand it.

What you need is to start.
Start becoming the woman your future self—and your kids—will thank you for.

Because they don’t want to take care of you later.

They want to run with you now.


Are you ready to walk in that kind of legacy?

Come join me at Warrior Day.
It’s not a “rah rah” women’s event.
It’s a day of activation, alignment, and truth.
It’s where you break free from small thinking and step fully into the woman you were created to be.

📍 Dix Hills, NY
🔥 Few seats remain

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